weakness of communication!!

Nowadays,there are lots of ways to communicate,and all the people,mainly guys,spend a lot of time communicating with eachother,through computer and mobile. When my granny was young,it seems that people have less to say to eachother ; or probably,it's us that have got a lot to say . But what difference is there between the communication of some years ago and the communication of today??

I think our tools to communicate  are able to make us talk with friends,but in the same time they aren’t really able to make us communicate…..There is a difference between the two things!

 But with these new types of technology,we don’t perceive that the communication is only virtual. The virtual communication has lots of negative aspects,like the time spent doing it,that seems to pass always too quickly,but in particular it makes us say things that in the normal face-to-face communicaton we would not say. Infact,for example,in the chatroom we don’t see the person who is talking with us,so we feel more sure of ourselves and less shy. I think it’s a bad thing because in this way people don’t really meet eachother,for what they are,but for what they aren’t. Also,when two people haven’t ever seen eachother,but they meet eachother in the chatroom,it can be that one of them is completely different from who he says to be,in the physical aspect too. He may also be a bad person,and we can’t know it!

But the worst thing of all,is that these new communications tools are made to make us communicate,but in the same time we are losing the real communication,the normal face-to-face communication among friends,and sometimes between parents and children too. Actually, it’s really the real communication that we must preserve, and evolve too. The speech is the thing that differentiates people from animals,it’s the base of our society,and of the global society in which we live! So,when we have nothing to do,instead of surf the net,we can have a real chat with people that are around of us,it can be interesting and funny too!